The first thing you realize you are sacrificing when taking on the travel lifestyle is the roots you have placed down. They may be family, friends, or more, but you know everything in your past is changed when you leave them behind.
Not everyone may consider this a sacrifice and short trips home may suffice for a time, but know this; what once held you to stay in a particular location will either lose its hold on you, or draw you back.
Online video calls such as Skype have helped keep in touch, as well as social networks have been a great means of staying in touch, but the presence of being there is just not the same, so consider this strongly before taking to a life on the road.
The second thing you give up is familiarity. This might not seem too important at first but after a while it can be a major stressor, especially in large urban assignments.
Quick, ask me my local address; I couldn't tell you. What is my most recent area code; again no idea. I have learned to keep this info updated on my cell phone ID, otherwise I would have no idea when asked.
Same thing goes for driving, even with a GPS it is not infrequent to miss a turn and find the next exit. How many times have I heard the GPS say "Recalculating"; I couldn't answer.
Working at the hospital is grueling the first week, as nursing practice is mostly the same where ever you go, but charting systems are different, and learning where supplies are can be challenging. Remember back in nursing school the first thing we learned before beginning any procedure was to gather all supplies? Well that isn't so easy when you can't find the supplies.
You might be wondering at this point if I am sharing this to discourage travel. Not at all, rather to prepare you for what the life is really like and to encourage anyone interested in travel to embrace the idea of feeling lost as but a new adventure. After working on so many floors it becomes like a game. You know the dressing cart is some where on the floor, its just a matter of where they might have put it.
Travel may require a third thing to give up as well, and that is a life in pursuit of possessions, a life I am all to willing to give up, but others may not. Moving every thirteen weeks simply doesn't allow for the accumulation of many material goods as the cost of transporting them becomes too prohibitive.
Those who prefer to build a home and lay down roots also choose to accumulate in order to create comfort, convenience, and security, while those living a life of travel value time, experience, and mobility.
Each time Mary and I have stayed for an extended time and then moved we end up giving away items we have collected, sometimes vast amounts of accumulated beach glass, other times a bike, and lots of unused food. Still, before any purchase we always consider if it is something worth exchanging travel space for and how long will it serve our purpose.
Having conversations with those who do not travel will cause me to consider how differently I now view these things; roots, familiarity, and possessions. Not that either one of us is right and the other wrong, but it becomes clear that there is different views to the same subjects and often times those who choose to stay home, just don't "get" my choices.
That is what makes me a travel nurse.
1 comments:
I am on my first assignment and this rings very true to me. This view of possessions escpecially when I divorced and downsized to a one bedroom apt from a 3 bedroom townhouse with attic, basement, and garage. Looking forward to reading more from you.
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